KAREN FAQS: A Public Service Announcement
You’ve seen the memes. You’ve heard the jokes. But what if being a Karen… isn’t what you think it is?
What is a "Karen" anyway?
Recently, “Karen” has come to refer to a specific stereotype: an entitled, usually middle-class white woman demanding to “speak to the manager,” policing other people’s behavior, or calling the authorities unnecessarily.
It started as silly social satire but now it’s a lazy insult used for everything from asking a question to daring to complain about injustice.
Is being a “Karen” an actual personality trait?
Not unless passive-aggression is now genetic.
“Karen” isn’t a medical diagnosis (yet). It’s a stereotype that flattens context and often misses the real story. Ironically, many people accused of “Karen-ing” are just… advocating for themselves. Sometimes even correctly.
What’s the problem with the term?
Lots of things, actually. Aside from ruining the name Karen for everyone named Karen? It:
+Silences legitimate concerns by shaming assertiveness.
+Dismisses older women speaking up as “difficult.”
+Reinforces sexist tropes that women should be seen, not heard (unless it's in a politely toned email).
+Encourages performative wokeness by calling people out without calling systems in.
Do *actual* Karens have feelings?
Yes, they do. And most of them are lovely, empathetic, and super tired of being treated like a walking meme.
We see you, Karen. We’re so sorry you’ve been caught in the crossfire. This space is for you. We’d love to feature any Karen-related art you’d like to share.
What should I call someone being rude and entitled then?
Try: “Hey, that behaviour isn’t okay.”
Be specific. Be clear. Be a grown-up. Leave Karen out of it.
...Because we all know she's already had enough.
Let’s retire “Karen” as a lazy punchline and focus our energy on actual injustice, not viral TikToks about someone returning soup at M&S.
What YOU can do to help:
✦ Compliment a Karen today
Bonus points if she’s got a bob. Double points if she’s got a coupon.
Tell her her sunglasses are giving “suburban icon.” Tell her her Tupperware game is unmatched. Tell her the world’s been hard on her name, but she wears it like a badge of honour.
Because deep down, we all need a Karen in our corner.
✦ Tell the world Karen isn’t a meme
She’s a multitasker with a minivan and a moral compass.
Hashtag it. Honour her.
#JusticeForKarens #NotAllKarens #BobCutAndBrave #KarenCultureReset #KarenWithCompassion #CouponQueenKaren #LetKarenLive #LeaveKarenAlone
✦ Buy art from a Karen
Nothing says redemption arc like supporting a misunderstood woman’s creative side.
Especially if it features acrylics and attitude.
#KarenArtMatters
✦ Sign the (Definitely Real) Petition
Tired of the name “Karen” being used as a slur? So are actual Karens. Turns out, there’s a real petition started by a real-life Karen asking the internet to kindly knock it off.
It’s heartfelt. It’s hilarious. And honestly? She deserves this win.
Don’t want to sign? At least buy a Karen a latte. She's earned it... and she probably has a loyalty card anyway.